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Name: not State: CT City: Thompson Ethnicity: Caucasian Height: 5' 4" (163 cm) Age: 31 Hair: Red Smoke: Often Drink: No Body Type: Average Religion: Non-Religious Seeking: Friends Marital Status: Divorced Profession: Biomedical Field Have children: No Wants children: Undecided/Open

About not: How NOT to get a response:1)Rude intros. I don't care how big and thick your dlck is and how hot and bothered you think you can get me. Chances are pretty good your lying anyways.2)No pics, no response. Dealt with the married ones and others with multiple profiles. No I will not give out my email for you to send a pic, nor will I go searching other sites to see one of you.3)Assuming you know me. You really have no idea, this profile is just a piece of the puzzle.4)Checking to see if I read your email and then you respond again as to what a bltch I am for not replying right away. Hello, ppl do work and don't always have time to email back right away. Give a girl some time. 5)Playing the sympathy card during emails. I don't want to hear about how your lonely. How your ex really screwed you over. How you just want somebody to love and love you. Please grow a set of balls. Most of us here have been hurt before, no need to drag the past into the future.6)Have something about yourself in your profile. I'm sick and tired of seeing "Just ask" or "Tell you later".7)See Pet Peeves below.Yes, I am tapped, in a good way. Life is serious enough, sometimes you need to see the lighter side of things. I have a twisted sense of humor, not everyone understands. I enjoy the forums here. Sometimes I observe, sometimes I jump in. Nothing much I have heard here has shocked me. Not sure if that is a good thing or not.Okay my time here has been fun, bizarre, and at times yes, boring. I've met some decent and interesting guys. Also met my share of wanna-bs, liars, players, and cons. I have tried my best not to judge others, before really knowing them. Made some good friends on this roller-coaster ride of dating. Wore my heart on my sleeve for one or two and you know who you are. I have dated without rhyme or reason. Early twenties to forties. Single, separated, divorced. Single fathers, guys who don't want kids. 5'4" to 6'4". Average, athletic, few extra pounds. Blonde/blue, brown/brown. Shy, c0cky. Your "average Joe" to the quite well-off. From what I've seen most ppl are either lonely, shallow, or enjoy playing on ppl's emotions. Some just want to live in the moment and have fun. To each his own.Things I have learned:1 Sense of humor is an assest, not all have.2 Sacarasm can be taking playful and/or meant to hurt intentionally.3 Actions speak louder than words.4 Life is short, quite wasting time. 5 Defense-mechanisms were made for a reason.6 You need to take chances in life to say you lived it or at least tried.7 No expectations, no disappointments. Pet Peeves:1) Prefer not to say-WTF? Either you do or don't or explain yourself.2) Random phone numbers on the first e-mail.3) Introductions with Hi Sexy, Sweetheart, Hun, etc.4) Copy and Paste intros.5) No pics, come on it's 2006.6) Men who are old enough to be my father wanting to hook-up. YUCK!I truly believe my wants and needs are simple. Most of us here have been hurt and are looking for that "special someone", blah, blah, blah, so let's just avoid the games! I am strong-willed. If there is something I want or believe in I will work to achieve it. I'd like to find someone with his head on straight and his priorities somewhat in order. Someone who can hold their own. A man of his word. If you say you are going to call, THEN CALL! Is that really to much to ask???Bottom line someone who is there for me and who will let me be there for them. It's a two-way street. In other words be my best friend, partner in crime and lover. Someone that I can talk the night away with or not have to speak a word and know what I'm thinking or feeling. A mature man with child-like qualities included. That one person you can see yourself growing old with. The person I will not walk in front of or behind but side by side, hand and hand.I am blunt most of the time and rarely bite my tongue. I tend to not filter my thoughts, and just say what others only think. I cut my own grass. Take out the trash. I can kill my own bugs. I can hook my own worm. Start my own fires. Pay my own bills. I don't need a man to make my life complete. I would like a man to compliment me as I do him. I have a "rent-a-husband" to do things I can't or would rather not do myself (no sex is not the pay-off either). I am not willing to settle for the next "Joe Blow" that walks thru the door, nor screw every Tom, Dlck and Harry in between. Being picky yes, but not looking for perfection. Everyone has faults and that's what makes each of us interesting. I want to see past your "faults" and see my own thoughts on "perfection".

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